Remnants of the free love generation have thankfully
survived and in recent years a sexual revival has resurged
in the American psyche and bedroom. This time, however, the
participants are a bit wiser and more sophisticated in their
sexual exploration. As a result sex toys, once limited to
the margins of society, have come full circle and are now in
the mainstream of American living. Individuals and couples
who had never before tried sex toys are now doing so for the
first time. And yet, there still remains some who are scared
of introducing sex toys into their life.
This fear comes in large part from a misunderstanding about
the uses and ramifications of sex toys. They imagine that
sex toys are limited to extreme versions of fetishism or
that somehow sex toys are a means of separating you from
your partner. These two conclusions cannot be farther from
the truth.
With the recent explosion in the popular usage of sex toys,
manufacturers have created a wide array of products designed
to meet the needs and interests of everyone. While certainly
there exists a wide array of S & M products on the market
today which those interested in find extremely fun, there
also exist a number of products designed for the novice
user.
The sex toy industry is completely aware of the desire for
many individuals to keep their toys discreet. As a result, a
number of products have been designed with that end in mind.
Vibrators that look exactly like lipstick containers and
lotions and lubricants which are described with terms like
‘relaxation’ rather than more explicit sexual terminology
come to mind. The discrete design and packaging of sexual
toys allows even the shyest of individuals to feel
comfortable.
With fears allayed as to the nature of sex toys, the next
question is about their effects on an existing relationship.
Whereas in decades past sex toys were largely limited to
single individuals or those focused on a particular area of
sex, normally labeled fetishism, recently sex toys have been
brought into millions of couples bedrooms. Sex toys can be a
new and exciting way to spice up sex between a couple who
has been together for some time. It can also be an excellent
way for couples to explore new areas to find that something
works better for them. In effect, sex toys, rather than
creating division between couples, are often a source which
brings them together in new and exciting romantic
situations.
About the author:
Susan Atibizi recommends
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