We have all heard the stories of people in boring
relationships. Sex becomes dull and the relationship with
your partner seems to fizzle out and become “routine.”
Sometimes it is difficult to have an interesting love life
when daily responsibilities make time for sex seem
impossible. Going to work, cleaning the house, getting
groceries, attending to family members, and dealing with
everyday family problems can sometimes leave you or your
partner too tired to get anything going. Sex can also become
dull when you have sex in the same place, at the same time,
on a weekly basis, always doing the same types of things. If
any of this applies to you, then reading and following these
few tips can help get your love life back into shape.
One thing that helps many couples is spontaneity. Surprising
your partner can be very seductive. Doing things like
showering together, or randomly giving your partner a long
passionate kiss can really help spice up your love life.
Even waking your partner up during the night can really help
keep sex interesting for both of you.
Stay fit and healthy! If not for yourself, then do it for
your partner. If you exercise regularly, you will have more
energy in the bedroom and will also be more physically
appealing to your partner. A finely toned body is very
appealing and just might be the right thing to get your
partner in the mood. If you are in shape, you may even feel
Affection is a key ingredient to any relationship. Without
affection, sex simply doesn’t work. If it has been a long
time since you and your partner had sex, don’t rush into it.
Start slowly; make sure that your partner knows how much you
care. Simple eye and body contact can really help any
relationship. Cuddling close while watching TV, or kissing
when you walk past each other can help immensely. Don’t
forget that sex shouldn’t be a chore; it should be fun for
both partners, and should be an expression of your feelings.
When couples lose that, their sex life often goes south.
Communicate with your partner during sex. If you like what
they are doing, and want more, tell them. Not only will you
get what you like, but also they will feel satisfied because
they are pleasuring you. If you want to try something new,
don’t be afraid to ask. Trying new things is a great way to
put new life into your sex.
Finally, have fun. Don’t let your mind be occupied with
other things. Be focused on what is going on when you are
with your partner. Your experience will most certainly be
better if you forget about your worries and just let loose.
Over time, relationships can suffer from stagnation in the
bedroom. This can be avoided by doing things like staying in
shape, being spontaneous and affectionate, and communicating
with your partner. Sex shouldn’t be a pain; it should be
fun, exciting, and romantic. Following these few tips can
help rejuvenate your love life!