More often than not, the first kiss is the
clincher for couples; it is the one that helps them make up
their mind on whether they wish to kiss the opposite person
again. Here are seven great kissing tips to help young men make
their first kiss a memorable one and then build upon that
success.
1. Make it romantic: Women prefer the charms of a seductive and
romantic kiss that takes place in seclusion rather than a quick
one in a situation that may lead to embarrassment. The kiss need
not always start with a lip-lock. Small kisses on the eyelids,
nose, and cheeks can set the mood for a sweet French kiss.
2. Hygiene: The importance of oral hygiene cannot be overstated.
For all your kissing skills, it is critical that your breath is
clean. This assumes greater significance if you plan to get
romantic with your partner after eating. It is best to have a
breath freshener at hand for such occasions.
3. Keep the momentum: This can mean a lot of things, all of them
guaranteed to heighten the kissing experience. Either partner
can be the tease and break away from a kiss just that bit early
leaving the other one asking for more.
4. Caress her: Women often like to be caressed while kissing.
You can start by caressing her hair from her forehead to her
neck behind her ear and then gently feel her back. Alternate
between using the full face of the palm and your fingertips.
5. Use your tongue: Learn to use your tongue skillfully while
kissing. Circling the tip of your partner's tongue with your
tongue lightly takes both partners further down the road to
intimacy. Flick your tongue over hers; surprise her with your
dexterity with your tongue. Sucking your partner's tongue while
kissing is considered incredibly erotic by some (but be careful!
Some women don't like it).
6. Experiment: There are several ways in which couples can add
spice to their kissing experiences. Peppermint and chocolates
add flavor to a kiss; partners can try to pass a small ice cube
between their mouths while kissing; the roof of your partner's
mouth is highly sensitive and feeling it lightly with the tip of
your tongue is bound to offer a pleasant surprise to your
partner.
7. Ask your partner: The most important aspect of any intimate
experience is the comfort level with your partner and kissing is
no different. Ask your partner about what constitutes her dream
kiss, learn about what she likes in a kiss and try to give it to
her in your personalized way.
About the Author:
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