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Introduction
Who? You’d Be Surprised!
Why?
What?
How?
Conclusion
Introduction
A great many people regularly use
enemas, a process of inserting fluid in
the anus and flushing the bowel. They may be used alone or with a partner,
as an aid to health or to cleanse before anal play, as part of a sexual
encounter or as a sensual end in itself. Whether you are an experienced klismaphiliac (person who finds enemas erotic) or a first-timer, the
following information may enhance your safe enjoyment of this type of water
sport.
Who? You’d Be Surprised!
The earliest known reference to enemas dates back to 1500 BC and grew to the
point of near-obsession beginning in the Middle Ages, as physicians advised
purging the body of “ill humors.” Chaucer discusses enemas in The Canterbury
Tales and Shakespeare mentions them in Othello. In Gulliver’s Travels, Swift
has his hero punished by being given an enema! The French courts of Louis
XII through the XVI adored enemas for health and hygiene and to increase
sexual potency, with the nobility taking three to four enemas a day. Even
Casanova was said to have enjoyed multiple daily colonics.
By the mid-1800’s the popularity of enemas had dropped off because of the
recognition that overuse impaired the normal function of the bowel. Today,
enemas are still enjoyed in moderation for health, cleansing, and enjoyment.
Some enthusiasts believe the regular use of enemas creates the foundation of
good health — Mae West openly extolled their virtues and Princess Di
advocated colonic health. However, mainstream medical opinion does not
support this belief.
Why?
Many people use enemas for health reasons or to cleanse, particularly in
preparation for anal play. But enemas themselves can be quite erotic. They
can impart a feeling of fullness, and men often enjoy the stimulation to the
prostate.
Most people like to roleplay. Whether your passion for enemas stems from
childhood when you had close physical contact with a parent while purging,
or you are discovering the erotic potential of cleansing later in life, the
roleplaying scenarios are limitless. Here are a few of our favorites:
Ageplay. One partner plays the “older relative” who delivers a colonic to a
defenseless “child” (their adult partner). The “parent” could show loving,
tender concern for the health of the “child”. Or a stern “mother” could
reprimand the disobedient “son”, complete with an over-the-knee spanking
before the enema.
Medical Scene. A kind “nurse” administers a colonic to a helpless “patient”
for medical reasons. Or a cruel Nurse Ratched-type figure places her
“patient” into rigid bondage before the
procedure.
BDSM. An austere Dominant gives an enema as punishment or discipline for
their submissive. This scene could involve restraint, erotic teasing and
humiliation, fetish wear, clamps, and other BDSM toys.
With Domination/submission (D/s) enema play, the power exchange is explicit.
For the Dom, it’s a way to exert control over your sub. Typically the Dom is
dressed and the sub is at least partially nude, and the Dom completely
controls the flow of the liquid in and out of the sub’s body. The sub acts
out their vulnerability in a primal way: the anus is exposed, fingered, and
penetrated, and the release of the fluid into the toilet often occurs in the
presence of the Dom.
No matter what your scene, if you and a partner enjoy enema play together,
the receiver must feel extreme trust and confidence in the giver.
Enthusiasts enjoy the anorectal stimulation and colonic pressure of a
skillfully given enema, and report feeling cleansed and relaxed afterward.
What?
DeepMemories carries a number of
enema kits. In the most general
terms, they include a bag or large syringe to hold a solution, a length of
tube leading out of the bag, and a nozzle at the end of the tube to be
inserted in the anus. Valves or clamps are often found on tubes to adjust
the flow of liquid. Some tubing has flared or inflatable tips for secure
fit. Always sterilize your equipment before use. For the liquid, we
recommend using previously boiled, filtered, warm water. Some klismaphiliacs
enjoy experimenting with exotic solutions. Use caution because additives are
rapidly absorbed into the bloodstream via the bowel.
How?
Most people say it takes a little time to get used to enemas and derive
pleasure from them, so if you’re an enema virgin, be patient and try them
more than once. As with any sexual play, the giver and receiver should
communicate exactly what about this experience turns them on — Dominance and
submission? Should the process involve bondage, spanking, caressing, sex? Is
the recipient accustomed to anal play? The following step-by-step
instructions are directed toward one person giving an enema to another,
though they can be adapted for solo play:
Preparation. Make up a quart of boiled, filtered water. An adult of any size
should easily be able to handle this volume, though many experienced players
take 2-3 quarts. Adding 2 teaspoons of table salt per quart of water creates
a solution that more closely resembles your body’s natural fluids. Make
absolutely sure the water has cooled and is about 100 degrees Fahrenheit
when you are ready to begin. In a Dom/sub scene, you could leave the
equipment on the bed with a note instructing the sub to sterilize the
equipment, prepare the fluid, and assume a certain position before your
arrival.
Position. Many klismos love the ass-in-the-air position. However,
first-timers may want to try lying on their left side, bottom leg bent, top
leg pulled up to the chest. This position exposes the ass and genitals, but
doesn’t feel quite as vulnerable. The over-the-lap position can be
reminiscent of a parent/child enema scene, and the recipient can position
his or her belly between your spread knees so the belly can extend as the
liquid flows in. Some people prefer to lie back on some towels in an empty
bathtub to eliminate concerns about leakage.
Lube. Water-based lubes will not dissolve the nozzle or tubing and
are safe for internal use. While spreading the butt cheeks to expose the
rosebud of the anus, gently massage a generous amount of lube onto the anus
and work some of it inside. This process will allow the nozzle to insert
smoothly.
Insert Nozzle. Allow air to escape from the tubing before inserting the
nozzle. While spreading the butt cheeks, slowly insert the nozzle in the
anus. Never force it; if you’ve used plenty of lube, it should slide right
in. You may have to insert the nozzle in stages if the recipient is a
newbie, allowing them to adjust as you go along. Encourage your partner to
relax and take deep breaths as you insert.
Start Flow. The bag or bulb should be no higher than one foot above the top
of the bowel (for example, if kneeling the bottom of the bag should be just
above the recipient’s belly.) Let the liquid flow in slowly. A
well-administered enema can take as long as 15 minutes to inject. Don’t give
the entire bag without stopping. Pause frequently. Check in with your
partner. Rub the belly. Encourage him or her to open up mentally to receive
and accept. Cramps may come, especially for a first-timer: Encourage your
partner to breathe deeply and continue to massage the abdomen. If the
recipient says he or she cannot take more liquid or has to go to the toilet
immediately, stop the flow for a few moments, then try again slowly.
Relaxation is the key to a good experience.
Sexual Play. Some enema recipients find it enjoyable to be sexually
stimulated at this point. Try touching your partner’s genitals with your
hand or mouth, or explore other sensitive areas. Don’t be surprised if your
partner has a powerful orgasm.
Expel Liquid. As the enema finishes, encourage your partner to breathe,
allow the belly to bulge, and have them hold the liquid, if possible. (An
anal plug can be used to help retain the fluid.) Help your partner up
with the nozzle in place and guide him or her to the toilet. After your
partner is seated, carefully remove the nozzle and allow the liquid to flow
out. It should be easy for both partners to avoid direct contact with feces.
After this initial cleansing, some people enjoy a second enema, during which
they focus more on pleasure than cleansing.
Conclusion
Many users report feeling lighter, more empty, cleansed, even euphoric after
a well-given enema. Especially if it is the first time, both partners should
stay relaxed and communicate continually. Remember, it should be enjoyable
for both of you, even if within a BDSM “scene” of punishment. As always,
this article is not meant to replace the advice of a physician.
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